Mess is Good

Posted by MissPriss on Wednesday, April 24, 2013. Filed under: , , , , , ,

I know, controversial. But what does it mean to be a kid? It means that you are growing in both body and mind. Exploration is a fantastic way to get kids involved with their environment that will teach them new things.
Why do I think making messes should be allowed? Simple answer: kids are messy. When they are truly intrigued with something new or fun, they are not going to be thinking about how far they are flinging their mess. As they grow older, this should change. You should be able to tell them not to get water on the floor or clay stuck to the ceiling and they listen, but when they’re young, those warnings are almost hopeless.
I also believe that it uncaps creativity. If there are no rules or limitations, that means anything goes. It gives the children an opportunity to test their limits with whatever they are playing and innovate new ways to play with it.
One time I let my charges play with Play dough in a bucket on the table. There were spoons, toys, cups, and who knows what else in there that they were exploring with. I go to the bathroom real quick and when I came back, the bucket was half filled with water. I told them that it was okay this time, but next time ask first. They had a blast, just like the water was blasting from the bucket onto the table. I laid out 2 towels, and still no luck. I eventually called off the hounds for lunch and we cleaned up what we could. It took the rest of the afternoon of constant drying to get that table completely dry again. It was ridiculous.
That’s when I learned that all messes should have a designated area. I usually have anything that is going to make a mess be done in the bathtub if it cannot be done outside. Kind of random, I know, and it takes a bit of effort to make sure holes are covered and reiterate to the children not to turn on the water (unless that’s what you’re playing with), but it sure does make for easy clean up. Other areas I let them make messes? The kitchen is perfect for Play dough and clay and the garage is a good place for many things if there is no furniture around.
When all is said and done, I tell the kids that since they made the mess, they have to clean it up. I also say, since I allowed them to make such a mess, I will help them clean it up (I have to be fair, after all!)
So what are your thoughts on the subject? I have seen views to both sides in other blog posts so I’m interested in what you have to say.

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